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writes:Well I've been going out with this guy for about a year, and we've just decided to split up because we both go to different schools and have hobbies and commitments inbetween and it's made it hard for us to be together and to be a proper couple as we hardly get anytime together. We love each other a lot, but it's really hard for us and it's hurting both of us right now because so many things make it virtually impossible to be in a working relationship, and we both really want to.We had a long talk about leaving it for now and concentrating on our exams, and we're going to get back in touch with each other in a few months after we've finished school, because we both feel too strongly about each other to just be 'friends' and lately we've been arguing a lot because it's stressing us both out how we want to be together so much but in reality we can't.It was a mutual decision, and I'm ok doing this, I know I can be strong and not contact him and let him live his life aslong as I know we can get back with each other when we're in a better place and it's possible for us to be a couple.I'm just so scared that he'll forget about me, and move on and find someone else, because I love this guy so much.I know you'll probably say that if it's meant to be, we will come back to each other and be together again, and that if he loves me as much as he says he does then we can make it work in the future and pick up where we left off.I just wanted to ask, how do I stay strong and have faith? I'm planning on contacting him when we break up for study leave on the 21st of May, is this too long?Please help, I'm heartbroken :(
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 February 2010):
 Everything is possible. He may find love somewhere else or same to you. Or luckily you two get back together. You have to have faith that no matter what happens to you, you will accept it and be thankful for the beautiful experience you shared together. Hopefully school work would keep your attention away from him.
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