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*inter1111
writes:No girls seem that attracted to me, i am always nice to them, being a gentleman what else can i do, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): i had the same, problem last year, u dont have to stop being a gentlemen completely, but every so often act kinda like an asshole but not too much of one, cause most girls want a guy who is confident (develop a kinda of ego, but be sure to not to make it too big and uncontrolable), stands up for himself, smart, nice, outgoing, and are able to hold a conversation with more than a 3 to 4 word voacbulary. If you have access to gym or something start hitting that a couple of times a week and you just might see an improvment in your overall health, confidence, and even how much more often girls notice you and talk to you
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reader, curious0hot  +, writes (1 February 2010):
 If you have the personality down, you can try paying more attention to your appearance.
They don't seem attracted? Maybe you should try asking one of them to hang/go out sometime.
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reader, tinter1111 +, writes (1 February 2010):
tinter1111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys this really helps!
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reader, lauraly +, writes (31 January 2010):
 ok well i'm a women so i don't know to much, i know i like he gentleman thing hard to find one! HaHa, but i also know that sometimes if you ignore some girls like don't act interested, then that makes them want you more. try to act cool don't come on to strong as well, but at the same time if your looking for a commited relationship then be yourself, you will evenully find the right one for you and she'll like you for who you are. good luck!
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (31 January 2010):
just be patient you have not found the right girl yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): You will be surprised what girls may be attracted to you. Girls (like any humans beings) dont always show their emotion.Dont worry about, their is more to life than what other people think of you. Just be kind, live a happy life and you will get what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): You try too hard? They don't trust that. Without trust, literally nothing will happen.You seem too nice, as in weak? They like strength, unshakableness.
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reader, ImJustTrinity +, writes (31 January 2010):
Honey, If the girls aren't attracted to you because you are a gentleman, then they aren't worth it. Yes it's a cheesy line, but seriously, they're not. You will find the right girl soon. There's a girl out there who wants to meet a nice, caring gentleman.You've got your whole life ahead of you to find that perfect girl!I had my first boyfriend at 16, and its taken me a while (and a few boys!) to find out that not all boys are obsessed with themselves or sex (!), and to find the right one for me. Also what helped me was not to keep constantly looking for a relationship. When you're happy being single and being yourself, that's when she'll turn up. Good luck (although i know you won't need it!)xx
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reader, mine-louise +, writes (31 January 2010):
dnt be too nice hun.. girls like the idea off a guy that there tougher then we are x
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