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Make the first move? Or let him?

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Question - (1 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi cupids,

I have a work related dilemma on my hands. My collegue and I have been friends for years we knew each other before I started working with him. The last year or so we have been spending some time going out visiting places we both have interests in, nothing has happened while we've been out like hand holding or attempted kissing, which was ok with me until the last month or so. I now find myself leaving home early to get to work to see him and the butterflies, well you wouldn't believe how much it hurts, hearing his voice makes me tingle. Our other collegues have been making comments so they can see whats happening between us probably due to the fact he bought me the most amazing christmas pressie which they all knew about!! I notice he's always hanging around me if it's to inform me of something irrelevent or to make me a cup of tea. The conversation today was about valentines day and how it was on a day he was working this year, Why and how would he know that unless it was on his mind? We are planning to go out next week, Do I tell him how I feel or let him make the first move? Or do I even go there with the mixing business and pleasure??

Thanks for reading, hope you can give me some guidance.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2010):

If you both like each other, and you're both single, why not talk to him and see where it leads.

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