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writes:I'm a "straight" guy, age 25. I put straight in quotes because there's a bisexual guy that i think i like. He's 25 also and his birthday is two days before mine. He's tall, caucasian, green eyes, swimmer's build, covered in tattoos, and has a carrot colored mohawk with a matching goatee. We have more things in common than Santa has names on his list. We hang out with each other at least six days a week. We were even talking about moving in together. I know that he's bisexual, and I think I may be also. One night, when we were drunk, we almost had sex! I stopped myself and told him that I wasn't ready for a sexual relationship with another guy. The only problem is, he's the first and only guy that I have ever had these feelings for. My first question is: am I straight, bi, or gay. Lastly, should I make a move?
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (2 January 2010):
Has your friendship changed since you got close to sex? Does he still want to move in despite this encounter and who started it? In my experience this is either going to go one of two ways, you have sex with each other or you never talk about it again. If your uncomfortable with the idea of being gay or bi then I wouldn't persue it unless you are ready to go though the coming out phase. Word of warning though, sex between friends changes things i've learned that from experience!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): um..in some aspect,it turns out u find your true love.u love what it is ,despite of its geder.whatever ,i recommend u to have a try .ask him directly about his feelings towards u.
and i suddenly come up with a really bad idea ,try have sex with him .to see whether you can DO it
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