A
female
age
30-35,
*atniss
writes:okay guys, here's the deal, there is this guy i have known at least since i was 10 years old most likely longer and we just ,in the past couple of years, started to be friends and we were always picking on each other just for fun and then he went to college about a year ago and we kinda lost contact for a few mounths so we talked again and he said that someone at his college told him we should date and he asked me if i liked him and i said maybe alittle. He asked me if i would make out with him if we had the chance to and i said i wasn't sure. After this he said he wiished we could just hang out but neither of us had time. About a week later he wanted me to come to his house and makeout with him but i couldn't and im not sure if i would've. anyways so i guess my question is do you think he likes me back or just wants to make out with me and thats it ? Now im gonna add that im over weight and i dont understand why any guy would want to make out with me but he said he did so im stuck on what to do. Do you think he likes me r is just desprete? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Caring guy is exactly right as to what you should do. I think your friend is making a mistake that he will regret when he is older, and by making him date you first you are helping him to avoid this.
Why I am writing is because I think at your ages it is likely that he is experimenting. Trying to find out what he likes. Someone probably told him off for liking you and not dating you over your size. Unfortunately he seems a bit clueless about how to build a relationship.
Agreeing to make out with him just for fun will only reinforce his bad behavior. As a friend it is your duty to point him in the right dirrection.
FA
A
reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): to me, it honestly sounds like he just wants to mess around but i cant be 100% sure because im not you. now, it is completly your choise if you want to.
from personal experience, just making out with hima and giving him what he wants made me feel like a bad person so i dont do that anymore. but like i said the choise is ALL yours(:
good luck!!
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 January 2010):
First of all, give yourself a break. Guys will like you! So don't put yourself down.
This guy sounds like he might like you, but he's just moving a bit too fast. So I would suggest that you say to him you'd like to get to know him more first before you do anything else. That means dates, going out together and such. You'll soon know whether he wants you or whether he just wants sex, because if it's just sex he won't be bothered. Go out with him before you do anything else.
...............................
|
