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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Heyaa, I really need your help. There is this boy.. and he was new at my school about 2 months ago. My friend and I welcomed him and showed him around. Then we found out he smoked, has lost his virginity and watches porn but we stilled laughed at his jokes and stuff. Recently, I have been talking to him every night on the phone and we are getting on really well. I think im falling for him but i have dreams for the future.. i want to go to Uni and be a Midwife. I don't want to be exposed to drugs, sex and violence.. but then again, i don't want to loose a friend.. and worst of all Im falling for him. I don't know if he is lying about the sex to impress me. The thing is, im not easily persuaded and I am able to say no. Could i change him and his life around? PLEASE HELP!
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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 him watching porn doesnt make him a "bad boy" or loosing virginity. almost everyone watches porn and a lot of kids now r loosing their virginity. which is bad. i dunnoo its ur choice if u wanna be with someone who smokes and has a shorter life...
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reader, xAx +, writes (1 January 2010):
 I think to stop yourself falling for him, you need to keep reminding yourself of all his negatives and try to put yourself off him. Keep him as a friend but only as a friend. Try to occupy your time with other friends aswell. Try to find another boy to attract yourself to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Sure you can hang out with him, just don't do stuff that you don't want to only because he says it's fine. How old is he, anyway? Because if he's like 14, his personality is still changing, I mean we did some stuff like that when we were that young just to find out what it's like and now, ten years later we go to college, have jobs etc.So don't be afraid, but don't believe everything.
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