Help! Did I cheat on my boyfriend!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have recently started seeing this guy who i really like and finally we've moved a step further and decided not to see anyone else and see how it goes. i am 100% faithful id never cheat on anyone. my family is pretty messed up i didnt know my dads side, and a few weeks ago i was introduced to my uncle who is 4 yrs older than me, hes 23. he seemed really nice and caring phoning me to make sure i was home safe etc. then then last night i went out for new years and he turned up. then as we were all gettin a taxi home there wasnt enough room in the taxi so my uncle suggested i go back to his, he'll set up a bed and drop me off first thing in the morning. so i agreed, i thought it would save me money and id be safe, hes my uncle, i trusted him. i got to his house n he kind of just went well get into bed so i did n it turned out he wasnt gonna make up a bed for me, he just decided to share his bed. fine, i thought its ok were related im not doin anything wrong. i was really drunk and then i woke up to him on top of me moving on top of me with his trousers off. he hadnt had intercourse with me but he had taken my knickers off and it was all wet from his erection. i told him to get off or he'll regret it so he did. he apologised and said he has just woke up and realised what hes doing. i felt really awkward and shocked i didnt know what to do so i just froze, i had no money, my battery was going on my phone and i didnt know how to get home. i thought ok hes off his face drunk, ill pretend it never happened even tho it freaked me out! then i woke up again to him between my legs with my knickers off again and he was lining my hips upto himself and i tried to push him away from me and i said no n he said yes back and still tried to push me into sex, i pushed him off completely. by this point it was morning so i woke up properly and tried to orientate myself. but what got me is he then pretended to be well into a deep sleep and then suddenly woke up and was like- o why have i got no clothes on? i didnt answer i felt really embarassed and dirty. i got a lift home off him and text this guy im seeing to say happy new year and see if he had a good night, i wanted to tell him but i cant, im scared he'll just walk away and think im filthy or too much trouble that he doesnt need. but i feel like ive been unfaithful, i just wish so much that id got another taxi home no matter what the price, i feel disgusting, its put me off getting to know the rest of the family because although he is acting dumb, im pretty sure he knows what he has done. another worry to this is now i could be pregnant because although he didnt cum he left some deposit in my legs which travelled upwards with his moving on me, and there was a lot! i did try wiping it up but i dont know if it was too late. what do i do if i get pregnant? how do i explain that? its getting me really down and i dont know what to do, i just keep getting flashbacks of what i was waking upto, i feel really stupid but i genuienly thought i would be ok. and i feel bad on this guy im seeing it could ruin everything if im pregnant.

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