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female
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anonymous
writes:ok so me and my bf had been going good since 8-7-09 and i know alot of people will say well your not in love but we were. Then last night came and i got 15 text messages saying so very mean and uncomfortable things about me and him having sex. Well i told him he shouldnt be thinking those things and he said if i wouldnt have sex with him he would make me and that he wouldnt wear a condom. Well after getting those text messages i started crying. My question is should we break up or see if he changes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Confront him in a public place and ask him if he sent those messages. If he did, get yourself out of there!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): face to face sask him if he sent those messages, if he did, that is disturbing
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): are you sure it was him sending those messages - you may want to confront him in person (either in a public place or with someone you trust just incase it was him he send the texts). If it is him then i'd cut him loose personally, you don't want someone who'll willing take away your control and your choices and your free will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Take your cellphone straight round to the Police. He is proposing sexual assault on your person and Statutory Rape.
Very serious crimes which need stopping before he acts upon them, with you or somebody else.
This person should at least have a police warning, if not a custodial sentence.
Please do not delay - keep the evidence and act right away.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 I totally agree with CG. He is the type of boy who isn't worth your time.
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reader, Man Boy +, writes (1 January 2010):
i agree with caring guy, break up with him find someone who cares for you and not just want you for sex
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 January 2010):
Break up now, don't waste another moment with him. and make sure your parents see the text as well. He effectively said he you wouldn't have sex, he'd rape you. Don't even consider staying with him.
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