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writes:heres the deal:im am a 16 year old girl and i just moved out to california about 6 months ago. ever since those 6 months i have been getting a lot more attention from guys and i dont really like it, because im not used to it and i dont really know how to deal with it.Anywayy, when i was on the plane to come here, i met a guy,,lets call him bob (yes bob:) and me and bob talked and kinda flirted on the plane and mind you this was a 5 hour flight but we talked for about 45 minutes cause we were both shy:Pi found out that he is 18 and hasnt had the best luck with girls and i havent really chosen the perfect guys either.he told me on the plane that if i hadnt moved that he would have asked me out, but i gave him my number and we text every once in a wile.heres my problem:i think i like this guy bob but im not sure because im not sure if i actually know him but he sounds like a really good guy and and not to mention, hes a cutie(;i just recently found out that i am moving back to where he lives and we would deffinitly have the chance to date.should i go for it?? does the age matter?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Yes, you had a "meet cute" which peaked your interest. I don't believe in the "meant to be" thing though.And yes, you might want to get to know him better before you get too involved since no one you know knows who he is.But sure, if you want to look him up when you move back home, then why not give it a go?He may be dating someone else, you just don't know at this point.
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reader, fluffyblueslippers  +, writes (1 January 2010):
Nope, age is definitely not a problem. What've you got to lose just by giving it a go? I mean if the age is going to be a problem, you'd find out in the course of dating him anyway, THEN you figure it out. It's not like dating someone of an "ideal age" is going to be problem-free either. There's no point fearing what you don't know!
And in the worst-case scenario, even if it doesn't work out, at least you'd have learnt something from it that will be useful in your future relationships.
Good luck!
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reader, Memories  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 I think you should go for it. Just don't rush into things. I think you moving back shows that something was meant to happen between you both and i hope it all works out for you :)
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