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*ampangeldevil
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for over two and a half years. I'm really wanting to give him a blowjob, but I can't bring myself to do it. I've had one other boyfriend who wanted me to and when I did, well it was a very very bad experience. And I'm just... scared. I don't want to let him down. He knows about my past and he's been so very patient with me. I just want to do this. I do. I'm kind of afraid of the actual sperm. That's about it with me. I can start, but when it gets to "that time" I freeze up. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over the fear?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): One way to lessen the amount of sperm that goes into your mouth is if you push his penis to the back of your throat (or down your throat) at the point of ejaculation. Just hold your breath for a bit until he's done, then swallow. Just experiment with deepthroating first so you are used to it. He'll probably really enjoy it :)
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 If he is understanding about your hang up then surely he wont mind you either finishing him off manually, or just going on to other activities.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): It's okay; if you don't want to. Then don't. It's not like he's forcing you to give him a blow-job. is he?
-Nothing to FEAR. if you done it once & didn't like it, don't do it the second TIME and face that same experience like the first time.
Nobody is forcing you to do it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 January 2010):
Well if he's a very nice guy, you'll be able to talk to him about how you feel. Mr girlfriend isn't all that keen on oral sex, so I either wear a condom, or I pull out of her mouth before climaxing. Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. Remember, you don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with.
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