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male
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36-40,
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writes:okay picture this... me and my girl are messing around im getting turned on she is ready for me i am hard as rock and then i go for the condom. in thre time it takes me to get the condom, put it on and start tryinf to go in i lose my stiffness. I hate it so much and i believ i wouldnt have thi sproblem if i had unprotected sex. Thing is my GF is crazy about it and she forces me to wear a condom (which is good) but i just cant seem to keep my erection with a condom on. she turns me on she really does but as soon s i get it on it takes ALOT for me to get hard again and it is frustrating. What can i do? and does this problem relate to anyone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): if your having this problem your not the only 1 that has or had that problem. im a girl here and my boyfriend did the same thing. what helped him is if your girlfriend puts it on for you but as she does she should put it on sensually so that it still keep you hard. hope this helps.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 January 2010):
 A condom is definitely worth it. Like they say, no glove no love! Try having her put the condom on you (instead of you doing it yourself) while kissing. You can add it as part of a handjob. It's a pretty common problem. Condoms really aren't sexy but they're very necessary. Someone else mentioned a female condom and I hear they've been making a comeback and getting a lot better. You could try one of those instead. I'm pretty sure you can put those in a little ahead of time.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Maybe you are buying the wrong size condoms?
I have to say your GF is a smart girl. You should ALWAYS use a condom. You are not the one to get "knocked" up in case of an oups.
Maybe you need to "practise" when you are alone.
Sorry you are loosing your erection but I think she is right.
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male
reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Has anyone ever tried the female style condoms. I would think it would resolve the issue here. But, I have no experience to base that on.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Maybe you could try masturbating with a condom on to get used to it???
Dunno, just a thought :-)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 January 2010):
I'm sure there are other guys out there who have the same problem. You just have to keep trying with those condoms. She's worried about pregnancy and such. And I bet you would prefer a condom to a baby coming along suddenly.
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