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writes:i am in a relationship of 8 years and 2 kids with him and i recently found out that my fiance was cheating on me with a couple other females at his place of work. It really hurt me, but we decided to try to work it out. now i find myself resenting him and feeling like i want to cheat myself, because i feel like why should i be faithful when he just might do it again, so what should i do? soo confused..
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Break up with him. He doesn't respect your relationship so why should you stay in it?
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reader, daarling.  +, writes (1 January 2010):
it seems like you are putting your children first which is good, but seriously, i feel you cheating yourself is no way to resolve this but only make matters even worse. you need a long hard thing and maybe a break with your children away from him. it sounds like you both are better of apart (but still with your children in mind) and if he doesnt understand, just explain to him, after all, he did cheat on you and made the situation in the first place. stand up for yourself, and put YOU first, not him. hope this helps :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 January 2010):
He has cheated with a few women, and has done it several times. Why would you want to stay with him anyway when he clearly isn't committed. Then you decide you might want to cheat yourself because you think he will again. Either sort it out, work together and neither of you cheat, or end it now. Don't sit around cheating on each other and just being miserable. You might as well end it and move on.
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