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male
age
30-35,
*harmzy
writes:Sory if this is long.We went out for close to 8 months, which i guess generally is a short time, but fairly long compared to many teenage relationships. I really genuinely fell in love with her but she broke my heart. Despite saying she loved me she flirted with other guys and nvr seemed serious. It was for this reason that i decided to leave her for good but i sort of didnt make closure. I just disappeared without any sort of warning, which i admit was my mistake. Now she has a new guy, been with him for about a year, doesnt give a sh*t about me, and im here stuck in this rut. Well she does talk to me but she sort of puts me on the back-burner. She has her guy but she likes flirting with me too. In the end its a win-lose situation and im damn right aware of it. What can i do?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2010):
 I agree - step away from her, don't flirt with her and try as best as you can to not hang out with or around her.
She obviously moved on, let yourself do the same.
And accept that it is pretty normal to "mourn" a relationship - just don't wallow in it.
Get out with friends, do things. Live life.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 Try to ignore contact with her and go out with your friends more often. Start a new life without her! She doesn't seem worth your time.
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