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*ejinag1
writes:i broke up with my boyfriend because he changed towards me, acted as kif he didnt care anymore, i never planned on us making it permenant though. i really love him and dont know how to get him back, ive tried everything and he doesnt seem to want to know, yet he'll text me etc. never phone me though. i used to put it down to insecurities, that he didnt want to get knocked back if he tried to get me back but ive made it clear how i feel now and still nothing, but why does he keep talking to me. i just want some answers and to know what i should and shouldnt do. i want to get over him if theres no future, but deep down i think there is a future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): You need to cut contact with him. He's just keeping you hanging by a string. I'm sorry, but there is no future for you two, and the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can find someone who you CAN have a future with.
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reader, Katie-Lou +, writes (2 January 2010):
Ignore his texts for a while.
He could do one of numerous things, he could get impatient or curious and end up ringing you, he may stop texting all together which would show his lack of interest, or he may even say something of importance to you to try catch your attention so you will text back. Thats what i did anyway:P
Worked as well.
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (2 January 2010):
If he doesnt care anymore then you should leave him. You could try time apart, see if he begins to want you again in your absence. This method doesnt always work but it forces you both to either come together or split up
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 January 2010):
I know you want to believe that there is a future. But think about it. His attitude changed and he seemed entirely unbothered by you, you've tried to get him back and it hasn't worked and he never really talks to you. I'm sorry. but he's just not that into you. If he was, he would be with you. He texts you either out of pity, or so he can always come back you and use you in the future. Don't spend your time on a guy who won't come back, when your Mr Right is still out there.
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