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30-35,
*tarstruck.x.x.x
writes:hello, i am 15 years old and my sister is 17. she has started seeing this guy from her work who is 26, the age gap doesnt bother me but what does is the fact that hes just not good and i know it. not only does he have 2 kids from 2 separate previous relationships but he also had a fiancée until last week. my sister told me that his fiancée broke up with her but yesterday I found out that infact he broke up with her. she's lying to me and my mum about it and I don't know what to say to her. now, it just so happens that his ex fiancée tried to top herself this morning. this is making my sister feel sorry for him when really its him that's the bad guy in all this. he keeps telling her that he loves her and that there going to be together forever when really its just a stupid fling and hes going to mess her up. i just know it. but how am i supposed to get through to my sister? shes not even talking to me about it
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (1 January 2010):
 There's not much you can do. You've said your piece and she is going to do whatever she wants. Just listen to her when she needs to talk, and help her if she asks, and that's the best you can do.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 January 2010):
You can't do a thing I'm afraid. Sometimes, people have to live by their mistakes. Just be a good sister and be there for when it goes wrong, because it will. He'll use her, then leave her. Or worse still he'll make her pregnant then leave her. We all know he's bad apart from her. But there's nothing you can do about it because she has to see he's bad for herself. Be ready with the tissues.
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