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writes:I been talking to this boy for a while and I just recently went to his house. I didn't know that I would lose my virginity but I did. So now it's been two days and he still hasn't called me. Should I feel bad that I had sex with him. I feel as though he never really liked me he just wanted me for one thing. What do I do. When will he call me. I need to know what's going on his has so I'm asking a male to help me with my problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): you say that he hasnt called you, but have you even tried calling him?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 January 2010):
Don't feel bad at all. You made a decision, trusted someone and it hasn't worked out. It isn't a major issue. He won't call I'm afraid, since I'm sure he just wanted you for one thing. But the good news is there are better guys out there who won't use you. Forgive yourself, move on and find yourself a good guy. Get to know him more first as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Oh, don't play so innocent. You knew what you were doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): I think he wanted you for one thing, that is the case, pretty much. Girls at your age tend to believe stuff that they later don't and they think they need to do this because if they don't, they will lose the guy or because they think this is the way a relationship works. Sorry to say that, but don't expect him to call you, move on and find yourself a decent guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): No you should not fell bad, most girls first times are not good, sad your was to a guy that was (is) such a shit.
Move on, move forward with a positive attitude. Your body is yours, choose to share it with people worthy of receiving it. Sometimes it's going to be hard to pick them out, and you're going to make mistakes along the road of life, but how you learn from them is important, not that you make them (we all do!).
Take care of yourself, take proper precautions, and enjoy being a sexual being... a healthy outlook on sex is vital, please don't let this experience color your attitude too much.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2010):
 No you shouldn't feel bad, what will that do? Will that give your back or virginity or make him call you?
Move on honey.
Next time you meet a guy take your time to get to know him, build a solid relationship BEFORE you guys have sex.
We all make mistakes, maybe, he was yours?
Stop beating yourself up.
Chin up.
Maybe he just wanted you for that one thing. It happens. It could be he is as nervous about it as you are. Maybe you should give him a call?
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