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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Just a quick one.My ex and i were on good terms for about 3 months after we broke up, then my ex called me one day to tell me she was in a new relationship. Well, then her best friend (who didnt like me since i broke up with her) started kinda getting into it with me, which i kinda just let slide, but she started telling me some things like how much i ruined my ex's life and how she wants me out of it.Then a while later, i just text my ex hi, see whats up, her boyfriend texts me, and tells me to stop talking to her, she wants me out of her life, and that she burned everything i gave her in the nearly year we were dating. My ex told me to ignore his texts, that she didnt burn anything, and well i was kinda po'd at that point so i havent talked to her in nearly 2 weeks.My problem is thats so out of character for her. I know her best friend has influenced her away from me, but before she would never have done that. And the constant back and forth, its my ex's word against 2 others, and well yeah, she would be too nice just to plain tell me if she wanted me out of her life.And im a likable person. People like me, and i kinda just hate to shove someone out of my life just because. Yet im not sure if its really worth it or not... Right now im leaning towards just forgetting about her entirely but i still want to know what you think.
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reader, misspurple  +, writes (15 August 2010):
You seem like a very mature guy. Sounds like alot of things have been said behind your back in a very immature way but sounds like she still wants to know you maybe just as a friend. You know you can't do that if there are a countless number of other people sticking their noses in and she is letting them do that. Her new boyfriend sounds the very opposite to you, controlling. Let her know that as a friend, you are still there for her but it looks like she is not over you but just move on.
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