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writes:my girlfriend is a virgin, and im not. i have fingerd her and she has tossed me off.. she says shes ready but shes really awkward to like start ''things'' with. what can i do to make this tention go away? or start things easier? thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): i know how you feel. its aukward if you have had sex and she hasnt. its normal i felt exactly the same.. but if she is ready like she has said then the biggest turn on for girls is fingering and kissing the neck. it helps alot then she will be completely ready and you can do it? thats what me and my boyfriend did. it works, also have a chat with her about it and see how she feels about it all? might help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Have a talk with her see if she is really ready for it. Sex can be a big thing for a girl especially if she is about to loose her virginity. Don't keep pushing it, she will do it when she is ready.
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reader, KEL.B HERE 4 U +, writes (7 August 2010):
 try a none sex ralationship for a bit untill she gets comftorble around you. Or talk to her about it instead! ask her if she is really ready to go all the way and explain if shes not then you will understand and you can take things slow if she likes. but only explain that if you mean it.
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reader, becca emma louise +, writes (7 August 2010):
well if she's ready then she will expect it to a certain extent. my advice would be that when you two are together just fooling around, start getting intimate by kissing her and then finger her to ease her up so she'll be in the mind set mentally and also physically prepared then ask her if she's ready, she'll know what you mean and if she says yes and your both ready mentally and physically (if you get me) then just go for it! and word of warning... use protection if she's not on the pill, well use it anyway as it will protect you from stds :) good luck xx
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