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writes: Issues with the best friend. So, recently me and my friend J(that's what we'll call her lol) have been hanging out with this group of guys. M, A, and S. S is one of my best guy friends on the planet, so I have absolutely no feelings for him other than friendship. M is older than us and has a girlfriend so he's not an option. Then there's A... ever since the first time J and myself hung out with him I've had a crush on him. He's literally everything I could want in a guy and he's just so fun to be around.Then I found out that A likes J... and then I found out the J likes A... but J was going to back off because she knew I liked him. I felt completely awful and guilty and I have absolutely no clue what to do. I don't want them dating because I like him a LOT and J gets over guys so easily it's ridiculous but I... don't. She's screwed me over before when it comes to guys (We both liked him, I said no when he wanted to date me instead, then she goes out with him not even a week later knowing I still like him!)What the hell should I do?!
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reader, help in hand  +, writes (10 August 2010):
It seems that your friend isn't as good of friend than you think as she doesnt seem to be very trustworthy. I think you should be honest to this guy, telling him how you feel so he understands the situation that you're all in.
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