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anonymous
writes:i have had sex with my boyfriend a number of times and no matter how long we have sex for i feel no peasure what so ever, at first it just hurts for about 5 minutes then after the pain goes i dont feel anything? if i try use anything else to pleasure me it doesnt work. he fingered me and it felt good but i didnt reach orgasm. Is their something wrong with me?
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reader, groovymoving  +, writes (7 August 2010):
Taking what others already mentioned in consideration, there's also the possibility that you're not attracted to your boyfriend. It's just a thought, but think about it. Do you find your boyfriend attractive? Do you actually feel attracted to him? Do you feel attracted to men in the first place?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Look up KEGEL EXERCISES.
It has been considered a good method to strengthen the pelvic muscles. Try that for a couple of weeks then hopefully you might feel the results. (Taken from experience, it is worth it!)
You could also "get to know" your body, find out where you like to be touched and the feelings that you like etc. Share this with your boyfriend and he can help out.
You could also create some kind of atmosphere when you have sex that makes you comfortable and is a turn on. For a romantic setting you could have candles and music.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): I have the same problem as you.I don't get much pleasure & when i do its rare.I've asked about this to a doctor & they've told me that its normal because I'm still young.I'm 17.I always thought there could have been something wrong with me or that my boyfriends penis was too small but it turned that its not that.You should try what i did..just try different positions.Don't do missionary!It's the worst position for a girl because they don't get much pleasure.You should get on top of him it's much better!Hope i helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): It is quite common for girls. do not go by common perceptions and media and films and advertisements. The reality is that many girls and women do not find it good or as good as portrayed and expected. So calibrate your perceptions and expectations.
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