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*eshian2
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. I cheatedd three months ago because i wasnt fully satsified in what he was bringing home meaning sex. But how do i tell him - the only way i can cum is by him givinq head to me. When we have sex i think about other things. Is that a bad thing...???
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (8 August 2010):
Break up with the poor boy because he doesn't satisfy you and you'll only cheat on him again. You've already shown you don't respect him, just leave him and find someone who "satisfies" you. Poor guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): Of course it's a bad thing.
Also, you shouldn't even be with this guy if you cheated on him. Instead of telling him how he's not getting you off, tell him how you got nailed by some other dude so he can dump you.
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reader, almc  +, writes (8 August 2010):
Yes! And maybe go get a book or go to a sex shop. But if your not happy then end it don't cheat. Wast of time and enjoy. Good luck.
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Your having sex and your thinking about other things? whats for dinner? Whats on the TV tonight? Whose birthday is next? Wonder whose walking by?... If your not 'in the moment'.. where are you?
In a relationship, everybody has wants and needs. If these aren't being fulfilled, people start to look elsewhere for them! Have you talked to your boyfriend about this? Tell him what you like/need/want and ask him what he likes/needs/wants. Then when you next have sex together, tell him (gently not commanding) what to do, where to put his hands, what you want him to do next.."I love it when you stroke me here.." etc. When he's doing something you like.. tell him. Tell him how good it feels. When he see's your reaction, he'll want to do it more.
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