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51-59,
*razy8
writes:I know he still has pictures of me but told me he got rid of them all. Why would a guy randomly just tell you that he got rid of all of your pics and then only later to find out he at least still had one left? Reply to this Question
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (7 August 2010):
he is keeping the pics because you still mean something to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Ok, let me try not to be tooooo harsh here. You have now written in what 3/4 times regarding your affair with yiur married man, you are married. He loves his wife but would not leave her fir you. You are noe bordering in the obsessive. Please leave this poor man alone. He chose his wife and marriage. So what if he still have some pics of you? The fact remains that he belkongs to his wife. I think that you are just so nasty (plse read previous posts) to want to destroy his home and tell his wife about your affair. It is in the past and I think yiu are cruel in wanting to destroy this innocent womans life. You sneaked into their lives as a friend , you got to know his wife and kids and you helped yourself to her man. Enough! A decision was made and he chose his wife and kids. As for you, why are you still married to your hb? You have disrespected him time and time again and you do not deserve him. You have invested nothing in your marriage and you are obsessing on a previous lover whom you cheated with. Realise this , you both have families yet you are so unconcerned about wreaking havoc on 2 families with your selfish need to have another womans hb. Enough, please link all your previous posts so that the aunts on DC can see what you have been up to. Let them get the full picture and then let them comment. It is not fair that you send in mysterious questions without background info. I firmly suggest that you seek professional counselling. Your obsession and your desire to destroy this mans life and marriage is bordering on insanity and desperation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): He wants you to believe he's completely over you, yet he still holds onto at least one or two memories of you, possibly to help himself find closure, to heal, or to move on.
When someone no longer has a loved one by their side, a picture is usually the only thing left to represent them, and keep memories of them strong. Something shared or left with them, such as a poem or an article of clothing may suffice. The magic of a picture is that you see the person (or place you shared memories with) and you never forget them. It's his way of never forgetting you.. but doesn't necessarily mean he wants to be back together with you. He may just want to remember you but still keep you in the past. His denying that he had pictures may just be him being shy about keeping them, feeling you might view him negatively for it.
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