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Did I Rush It?

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Question - (7 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *earaaaXoXo writes:

Hey guys. So the first day I hung out with a guy we had sex. We've been hooking up every so often for a little over a month and I'm starting to like him. We discussed dating and he said "He'd like to stay single for the summer cause he never does well in a relationship. And for some reason it makes things worse." So do you think all he's looking for is a fuck buddy? Is that all I'm going to be to him since we had sex the first time we hung out? Do you think come September he'd want to try dating? Please help?

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (7 August 2010):

Libra1963 agony auntYou spoilt it by sleeping with him to quickly. You date first then sleep with a guy. Do not allow him to use you any more unless that is what you want.

I can not see this relationsip developing because you have spoilt it. Move on and learn from your mistake.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

He's already got you in the sack without committing. It sounds like he never even implied that he had any intention of committing to you later on in the first place. What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

I think you might have rushed it.I don't think he sees you as girlfriend material anymore since you gave it up to him way too fast!What you should do is don't have sex with him anymore!Just stop & if that bothers him then obviously he just sees you as a fuck buddy!Hope i helped & if you wanna talk..just send me a msg(:

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