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writes:what should i do?so.. a few months ago i posted another question, cause i had a problem.. i started having feelings for my best friend (female best friend) and we were almost like brothers we were best friend, i wanted to tell her what i feel but at the same time i didnt because if she said no, things would never be the same i guess.. i was a chiken i didnt have the courage, and im 15 and i havent had a girlfriend yet, but well anyways i told a friend about my feelings toward her and he told her, the next day i talk to her and i knew that she liked another guy, and she said she was sorry because she made me feel bad a few times, but i told her that it was ok but she said that she didnt want to start seeing this other guy, but the next week i found out that he had been seeing this guy for like a month or something, and when i asked her why she didnt tell me she didnt even answer, and she keeped posting comments in fb like.. "i love you, you love so why do i care?" i know its a song but.. she could have been talking about me, but anyways.. that was like 7 months ago and she is still avoiding me and i want things to be like before but i dont know if she acted like a bitch.. or its just me, and i dont know what to do.. cause its really akward every time i see her and i still ahve feelings toward her
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reader, mariot4747 +, writes (16 August 2010):
mariot4747 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah it does hurt :S
and how did it turn out? yeah hopefully we will get togheter some day
and thnks xD your english is good too
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Aww I'm sorry... that sucks... a lot. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts so much.
She wasn't sincere with you, perhaps she just didn't wanna hurt you. But, she should have told you that she was seeing someone because in a way she led you one... even if she didn't mean to.
It sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, she's still young. Just give it time, and she'll come round. There are no guarantees... who knows maybe you'll get together someday, perhaps you won't, but I think she needs to mature a bit. I'd just "lay low" for awhile. (lay low= evitar el tema del amor cuando le hables)
You speak really fluent English... wow... you're only 15 from El Salvador. It took me awhile to get fluent in Spanish =)
Espero que haya sido de ayuda
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (8 August 2010):
Aww I'm sorry... that sucks... a lot. I was in a very similar situation and it hurts so much.
She wasn't sincere with you, perhaps she just didn't wanna hurt you. But, she should have told you that she was seeing someone because in a way she led you one... even if she didn't mean to.
It sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, she's still young. Just give it time, and she'll come round. There are no guarantees... who knows maybe you'll get together someday, perhaps you won't, but I think she needs to mature a bit. I'd just "lay low" for awhile. (lay low= evitar el tema del amor cuando le hables)
You speak really fluent English... wow... you're only 15 from El Salvador. It took me awhile to get fluent in Spanish =)
Espero que haya sido de ayuda
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