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51-59,
anonymous
writes:here is a dilemma, a friend of mine is in a brand new relationship. The guy she's dating, unbeknownst to her, but I happened to find out, has been in an "open" relationship with another woman for over 10 years. He made a decision to keep up his sexual relationship with this other woman (which I also found out about through a mutual acquantnence)and the other woman also knows about it. My question is what should I do as a friend, and why would he do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 As a friend you should pass on information that you think she needs to know. However, don't be surprised if she dosen't believe you. Tell her, then let it go, don't allow yourself to be dragged into arguing about it with her.
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reader, romany +, writes (7 August 2010):
 I dont think you should tell her that HE IS in an open relationship, but i do think you should tell her that you've heard, and that it may not true, but you thought she should know, as you value her as a friend and would hate to see her being strung along in a web of deceit.
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