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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I miss my ex.... physically? Alright, I don't understand it. I truly do not want to be with my ex boyfriend ever again. He's a complete tool and neither of us wants a relationship. But I miss the stuff we used to do together. I miss having someone to kiss and hug and say cute things too, but relationships are so complicated(especially with him) and to me it's just not worth it. But I am soooo physically attracted to him it's ridiculous. Him and I are still friends, should I ask him if he just wants to be friends with benefits? What should I do??
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reader, Redstars14 +, writes (7 August 2010):
If you become a friend with benefits it could lead to you getting back into the mess you just escaped and prevent you starting a new relationship with someone else in the future. It's completely normal for you to miss all of this but it could prevent you from having a normal healthy relationship with somebody else. Don't cave into someone that was a complete tool, it'd be like letting him win or saying that what he does to women is ok. You'll find someone better than him that you can do all the stuff with again at some point just hold tight and good luck :)
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