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writes:OP's ownm title:help!!i'm drunk i went to this party and i did a pole dance in front of mansmy boyfriend was waiting for me like 2 hours.i haven't told him yet.what to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Tell him soon, he can't find out from facebook photos.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 August 2010):
Sit down and sober up first. Then come clean with your boyfriend.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (7 August 2010):
Do you think that it is going to get back to him? are you afraid of losing him? and further more that is what happens when drinking is involved! believe me i have done some stupid things myself, at that age! i was playing spin the bottle at a party we all went to after work we wer'e waitresses! and there was a bunch of us and i was married at the time! my husband was a police officer. anyway i felt pure pressure but my arm wasn't twisted i didn't want to feel like a dweeb! so i played i thought it was innocently in good taste. well when i got home my husband wasn't home from work yet! and that to me was odd, so i called my father, and my father said your husband went over to where you wer'e at and looked through the sliding glass door and seen you kissing another man! i was like oh *hit the end of my world!! my husband came home later! and was pretty hurt and i told him im sorry and i love you and it mean't nothing really. and i also told him that i had asked him to go w/ me but his work is like always important to him! and i said to him that it wouldn't of bothered me if you kissed someone, and i would of had more fun! if he wer'e there w/ me but you wasn't and iam truly sorry. well he understood and we started spending more time w/ one another. and that was what made us more open w/ one another. i was 22 and he was 26 at the time but what may work for us may not work for you go w/ what you need to do and know the truth always does come out. good luck.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 If you've been drinking then for God's sake DO NOT DRIVE ANYWHERE!!!!!! Even if you've had a LITTLE ALCOHOL... and you've had WAY too much!!
I'd be concerned about getting home safely, then deal with your boyfriend. A pole dance isn't a big deal compared to the devastation that drunk drivers cause.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (7 August 2010):
Just get back on the pole...hopefully you won't remember it tomorrow.
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