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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How do I tell a guy that I want to wait to have sex till I am married? That I am not willing to give it up? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (29 April 2010):
 Be upfront, be honest, and be direct. Tell him that you are saving your self for marriage (or any other reason).
BTW: I admire your choice. I wish I was able to wait when I was your age.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 April 2010):
Just tell him what you've written. If he doesn't' understand or respect that, then he's not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): Just tell him, if he realy loves you he will wait but in the mean time you can do other stuff like oral sex of jerk him off. Men cannot go that long without any sexual pleasure sorry but its their Nature
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): Be straight with him tell him I'm not having sex until marriage if he really loves you he will respect you and wait... if he can't wait than its not meant to be a man that really loves you Will wait trust me it happend with me my bf waited for me 2 years and we finally got married
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 Tell it to them straight and in simple English which they can understand. You can tell them that you don't believed in premarital sex. They will get your gist.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 Tell him this:
"I want to wait to have sex till I am married. I am not willing to give it up".
You know how to tell him this. It seems to me you're afraid of what consequences it might bring. But then, you can't win them all. Either you tell him, and risk losing him, or you don't tell him, and risk losing him anyways. Unless, that is, you have sex before you get married.
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