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I'm not sure if I am being played or he is just shy?

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Question - (29 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so there is a guy, and we have been friends for over half a year now, we talk online A LOT and in school.

I catch him staring at me sometimes, trying to catch my attention and he often jumps into conversations I am having with other people. I have analysed his body language and it is usually in my direction, even when across the room.

However, this guy has mentioned us going out together many times, but then will leave it at that, obviously he expects me to ask him at a later date when it is going to happen, which I haven't done because I'm not sure of how he feels yet. Not only this, he told me that he should have been my valentine and he is always sweet to me, online always and not in person.

The other night we kissed, and it was not a one sided thing, because he initiated a lot of it. However, now he is pretty much ignoring me and acting as if nothing has happened.

I'm not sure if I am being played or he is just shy? Because I know he talks to a lot of girls? And at the moment I am at a loss for what to do, because I do really like him but don't want to make myself look ridiculous by asking him if he does not feel the same way back.

Any help would be great thanks!

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (30 April 2010):

raiders agony auntI don't think he is shy because he has kissed you and has asked you out, he just doesn't set a date. You should find out who else he is talking too or if he has a girlfriend outside of school, I don't think he is shy, so he might be a little player.

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