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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:please help im 19 years old. my boyfriend{of 2 years} and i agreed that we would take a break because he was going to jail.. when he was in jail we talked once a week..and both agreed that when he was out we would get back together. he got out of jail cupple weeks ago and asked me to come over he needed to talk to me.. when i got there i saw a female who was pregnant.. he took me out to dinner and told me that he cheated on me before he went to jail and that women at the house was the mother of his child and she was due anytime.. im in love with this man.. we have been spending alot of time since i found this out..{{the other female and i dont get along she said if we get back he wont be able to see his child}} he told me that girl doesn't mean anything to him and that he is in love with me and ask me to stay by his side because he cant do this alone.. really want to but i dont know if i can trust him again.. please someone help im heartbroken and confussed..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): He cheated.
He went to jail.
Sorry, this guy's a loser. You can do better.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (30 April 2010):
 You're 19 and you don't have kids of your own; don't tie yourself down with someone's else's. There's no need to be a step-mommy at this age, especially to a child who came about because your boyfriend cheated, didn't use protection and waited 9 months to tell you the truth. It may be hard to end the relationship, but you're in for a long, rocky road if you stay with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): If you really want to stay with him I would tell him to get a job so he can support his child. Then I would suggest that he finds himself a lawyer to get joint custody with the mother over the child.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 April 2010):
I think you can do better than this man. Okay, he went to jail, so maybe I can say give him a second chance. But he also cheated and has now got a baby on the way. That means that you will never again be of as much importance as the baby and the mother. You are truly now second best, and I don't think it's worth pursuing. You will become more and more angry and resentful every time you see him with the child, and every time you know that the child's mother will phone him and ask him for help. He's just not that great a guy, and the best thing you can do is move on now before he hurts you again, which he will.
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