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writes: Hello, thanks for your time! I'm 18 and in a long distance (Leeds to London) relationship with a man who is 45, he travels down every other weekend, it's been over a year we've been together now... To spice things up some more we decided we'd admit our fantasies... I said teacher student role play, he said to rip my clothes off! I didn't think anything off it until he said could he dress me up as a student and rip my clothes off... Does anyone think this is really wierd? Is it just kinky or is it a bit too far? Could he be violent!?Thankyou
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 He's not violent, he's just sharing his fantasies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): Nope that's not a weird fantasy. Fantasies are meant to be something out of the ordinary usually and to some people what one person likes might be "weird". Never do anything that you're uncomfortable with, but everyone likes different things. Personally I LOVE it when my bf rips at my clothes and tears them off, it's primal and makes me feel like he just can't wait to get at me. Complete side note...why are you with someone long distance who is so much older than you? I'm not trying to judge or anything but relationships like this tend to have many problems down the road, not just the age difference but the distance can really wear on a relationship. Maybe try to find someone closer to your age who lives closer to you. He may have violent tendencies but you can't diagnose that from something like this, only from getting to know him in person. He is quite a bit older and probably sees you as a child which would put him in a dominate role in the relationship.
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reader, williams3  +, writes (29 April 2010):
i dont think u have anything to worry about, older men tend to have these kinds of fantasy well saying that all men do, but in your case your partner is 27yrs older than u and ur studant age so thats why he is having the fantasy of u dressing as a studant and him ripping ur clothes of, maybe you should consider asking him to dress up as ateacher so it dont seem weird,just enjoy it, if u become unsure of doing it then just be honest with him and say
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