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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.I have a trouble with my ex boyfriend.OK! I'm gonna start tell u how we met.I working at 7eleven. I am cashier.He was my regular customer.Last Christmas we're start talking and make the long story short.We were dating after christmas.On New Year we jump to the next step.Now we are relationgship.He said his name is Juan.ok..He told me about his last relationship.She put him in the jail for 4months and he got in trouble with her.They were fighting.So,police arrest him.And next day.Which is Jan 1.We went to church.The guy from church he said police was looking for him.He told me he is getting in trouble here if he stay longer.So, we decited to move to Houston,TX.We lives in his father's girlfriend house.She is young lady.I'm 22.He is 27. And She is 40.We live there for 2months and we couldn't find a job.One night he was drunk and we was fighting.So,I went to sleep.About like mid nigh the lady was screaming.He was in her room.She said he put his underwear all the way down and try to touch her. He said No. he was try to talk to her.So,we getting to fight.So, we left from her house.We decited to go to Miami,FL. Cause I didn't believe her.May be i was stupid or I was blind.So, here we are in Miami.Which is he grew up there.about like 1 month we live there. I knew about him..He father is really nice man.He told me my boyfriend real name is Josue.He is not 25 years old he is 27. He use to doing drug(cocain and rock, creck)everything.but I know he drink alot.but I never know he using drug.So,I decited to change his way.I talk to him and he also agree.So we went to hospital and its dosen't work.He stolen my debit card and took $200.00 and go smoke cocain.That day I was so upset and I took off from him without say bye.I told his father and I left.He called me when I was on my way back home in Arizona.To convance me to go back to him.I told him its over and i can't take it nomore. So,I already broke up with him.He call me everyday and harrest me. Tell me that he gonna come over to my house and kill me and kill my family and stuff like that.I'm kind of scare.I don't know what to do.I can't change my phone number cause he said if i don't contact to him he gonna call my mom and make a problem.. So,what I gonna do.I am scare of him.What should I do??? Is he really gonna come.. and do something. I don't wanna be with somebody using drug and low life. Pls help me
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reader, TimmD +, writes (29 April 2010):
 Call the police. I wouldn't take any chances. If there is even a small chance he could do something to you or your family, call the police. Between the death threats and his drug possession, there should be plenty of things the police could arrest him for. While they may not find him immediately, if he knows the police are looking for him that may scare him into staying away and leaving you alone.
And if you do tell the police and he comes around, they will be prepared for him, where if you didn't tell them ahead of time they would be less prepared upon his arrival.
Call the police. Period.
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