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writes:I have had a "crush" on my boss for the past year. (please no lectures on dating the boss- its not happening but can't help what I feel) I can't stop thinking about him even though I know he does not feel the same way. His mood when I see him determines my mood. My daily responsiblities contine, I do not stock him, but I do look at his facebook account daily even though I have not asked him to be friends. I have some pictues of him saved in a word document. I looked up what it is to be obsessed and I don't have alot of the symptoms. I wish him well whether he likes me or not. Am I obsessed or just crushed because I can't have him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): You have a huge crush, but a year is a long time and having pictures of him saved is not healthy. It's time to let it go. Think of what you could of being doing with all that time you have been spent thinking about him.
Years ago I was younger than you I had a crush on my boss, t o this day, I still remember his name, man that guy was hot.
You need to fill you time with something else. Instead of spending your time checking his face book. Go out with your girl friends and have some fun.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 What makes you think you cant have him? Is he married? Does he give off any interested body language to you? Many people meet their perpective partners at work... who knows. Do things to change the way you look to make him notice you. Change your hair, your clothes and see wheher you can capture his interest that way.
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 April 2010):
Well at least you're aware that it can't happen and that it would be bad if it did. So that's a good start, and proves you're in no way obsessed. You're right, this is just a crush, exactly the same as a student/teacher crush. So it's perfectly natural. Enjoy your crush, but don't let it go further.
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