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writes:I went nc for about a month. Finally on my bray I answered and we talked. She texted later and wanted to meet up sme time in a week. We met and flirted, touched and acted kinda like old times. Over the weekend her rebound guy came to visit her and I felt kinda betrayed. She called on Monday, we talked, and I told her I couldn't be friends with her cause. Still had feelings for her. I got an email from her saying that she still obviously had feeligs for me and was trying to reconcile bc she felt like I was at a point in my life where I could put her first but that I was mean(I was) and self centered and hadn't changed and that we just needed to take time to get over eachother. I ran into her on Saturday at the coffee shop and we talked. She told me it "you finally understand" "I have just wanted to shake you so you'll get it"(talking about what went wrong between us). Sunday she texted me all day, and at night brought cookies over. We met up on Thursday and hung out again. It was still good but much less flirty. I asked if she still felt like reconciling, ect. She said we are just friends and doesn't know about our future. She said she wants to meet up this week, but I'm starting to feel like I am wasting my time. Should I just go nc again or should I try to be her friendand slowly work things back to where she might want to get back together again? We dated for almost three years. The guy she is dating now was her best guy friend, thy darted dating days after our breakup, there was nothing betweenthem untill we broke up. I'm sure of that. She hastild me she started dating him to "feelok again". Thaw why I thnk it's a rebound. She also is planning on internig in my town. Not three hours away where he lives. Should I try to meet up with her or am I wasting my time??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree. I did cut off contact, and told her to stop stringing me along. Apparently she wanted to be more than friends but I really het her with my comments. Now we are on good terms, but I don't know what she wants, ect. I didn't call her for four days and today she is mad at me bc we hve been hanging out on Thursdays and I ddnt call??? Hmmm... I agree that I need to cut her off, but I wish I understood what she's thinking.
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