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I get so nervous and queasy around this guy...?

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Question - (29 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *hloe__0 writes:

I honestly don’t know what the matter with me is. Never in my life have I ever been this nervous and uncomfortable around a guy. I’ve been out on a few dates with him and they went fine. No sparks or fireworks or even instant chemistry. But lots and lots of nervousness. I can’t figure it out. I know this sounds like butterflies in the stomach, head over heels crush, but if I liked him, wouldn’t I know that I liked him….? I’m so confused. Even when I’m looking at photos of him on fb when he’s looking directly at the camera (hence eye contact with me) I still get “butterflies in my stomach”…for lack of a better term.

BTW, I definitely don’t think it’s a danger thing or anything. He’s been nothing but nice and sweet and respectful.

What are your thoughts?

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A female reader, ladyjaye United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2010):

ladyjaye agony auntyou are totally falling for this guy!!! just let ur feelings be free!! and accept it dont try and control it just embrace it and most of all enjoy it! gud luk!

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (29 April 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntThis is chemistry! This guy is effecting you in a way you haven't felt before. I used to blush whenever my husband (then my boyfriend) came into the room. Chemistry does funny things to our bodies. Enjoy your relationship the butterflies will go eventually and boy are you going to have fun :-)

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