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female
age
36-40,
*hloe__0
writes: I honestly don’t know what the matter with me is. Never in my life have I ever been this nervous and uncomfortable around a guy. I’ve been out on a few dates with him and they went fine. No sparks or fireworks or even instant chemistry. But lots and lots of nervousness. I can’t figure it out. I know this sounds like butterflies in the stomach, head over heels crush, but if I liked him, wouldn’t I know that I liked him….? I’m so confused. Even when I’m looking at photos of him on fb when he’s looking directly at the camera (hence eye contact with me) I still get “butterflies in my stomach”…for lack of a better term. BTW, I definitely don’t think it’s a danger thing or anything. He’s been nothing but nice and sweet and respectful. What are your thoughts?
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reader, ladyjaye +, writes (29 April 2010):
you are totally falling for this guy!!! just let ur feelings be free!! and accept it dont try and control it just embrace it and most of all enjoy it! gud luk!
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (29 April 2010):
This is chemistry! This guy is effecting you in a way you haven't felt before. I used to blush whenever my husband (then my boyfriend) came into the room. Chemistry does funny things to our bodies. Enjoy your relationship the butterflies will go eventually and boy are you going to have fun :-)
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