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writes:I'm a college student with a girlfriend of 6 months. We've recently been talking about sex and she mentioned that she does not want to have sex anytime in the near future. We have only been making out with a little groping etc. She is quite high maintenance seems completely uninterested in sex all together, and I hate to be shallow and break up with her, but I'm not sure how long I'm willing to wait it out when she seems to be looking for love and I'm looking for a casual relationship or just sex.Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): 6 months and no sex and no chance of sex? Time to move on. You are not being shallow.
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reader, raiders +, writes (29 April 2010):
 You two are not in the same page and the best thing to do is to break up.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 Did you ask her exactly way she does not want to have sex ? Because it would be very different whehter it is because she wants to wait until marriage ( which would cut you out of the picture ) or if she has hang ups and fears that you could instead help her overcome with a bit of patience.
Anyway it's not wrong to break up with her if you have totally different wants and needs- in fact, it's the only decent thing to do. If she wants love with no sex and you sex with no love, you'd just be wasting more of each other's time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): Well if she isnt wanting sex and is wanting to fall inlove first that isnt such a bad thing on the other hand if you arent wanting to fall in love and are just wanting to have a sex partner you should be open with this girl about it .She deserves that and if you arent happy with her choice eventually you are going to get very sexually frustrated a nd that isnt good for either of you . So Just Be Honest !!!!!
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