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writes:First of all I should start by saying that I have trust issues to begin with that I'm not proud of, but they're hard to get rid of. Basically the story is this, my girlfriend told me she was bisexual and we decided that it would be a nice way to spice up our relationship to take advantage of it. I asked her if she would do photos or videos of her with a friend of hers to spice it up because it's actually a long distance relationship, but there's a catch, her friend's boyfriend is the only one available to do them. She says her friend's boyfriend will respect her wishes not to try to have sex with her, and he supposedly knows about me. Is this is a red flag or is there a chance I can trust it?
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reader, ChristineAvril  +, writes (29 April 2010):
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 April 2010):
 So you're in a LDR with a bisexual girl who wants to do a photo shoot with her girlfriend and this girl's boyfriend? And you have trust issues in the first place?
Hooboy, does that sound like a bad idea. I can't see this ending any way but badly. You will always wonder what happened when the camera was off.
Why are you so far from this girl? How did you meet her and how long have you been in a relationship with her?
I've been a bit puzzled by tales of LDRs in which the couple has never met in person. It seems fairly obvious to me that there has to be some hope of meeting and being with the other person in the relatively near future for it to be a viable relationship. Otherwise, you are wasting your precious time on this planet chasing fantasy, and missing opportunities to meet real, live, in person people who could actually be in a face-to-face nurturing, sustainable relationship.
Could you clarify please? And tell us about these trust issues. Thanks.
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