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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi im currently 29 weeks pregnant and me and my ex partner got together 15 months ago he had come from a broken marriage and i came from a broken relationship i fell pregnant straight away not planned but we decided to keep it at 26 plus 4 weeks i developed pre eclampsia and my baby was born he lived 5 weeks n then died, which totally devostated us both he has 2 children to his ex wife and this last yr hasnt stopped going on causing trouble, they totally hate each other and she is so nasty that she told me she was glad my baby was dead any ways me and my partner decided to try again and i fell pregnant imediately he wanted this baby so much but then his grandma died and he fell apart his ex wife wouldnt let him see his children our baby died his gran died then i was 22 weeks pregnant he went to the funeral and never came home then i find out hes gone bak to his ex wife ? confused i really am she came to my house and started telling me how she hated him and shed get me back ne ways its been 8 weeks nearly and he still contacts me telling me he cant wait for our baby and he is gonna take care ov us and all this wheneva i ask him why he left he says i ran to my children instead of talking i love him so much but i just dont no how to play this i told him if hes not back when the baby is born im moving on what should i do please help x
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 I know you don't want to hear this but it is better if you get over him. He went back to his ex means he cheated on you with his ex.What a horrible women his ex is. Who ever would go back to her has issues. You could try and give him a choice. He can get his sorry butt back to you and never go back to her again (seeing his children is a different thing but you should be there if she is present.) He would also have to ask for your forgiveness for doing such a thing. Or he can stay with her and you move on with your life. He can't keep on going back and forth between the two of you. I'm sorry you're in such a mess. I hope everything works out well for you.
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