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Should I continue to flirt?

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Question - (12 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *bby_AuToPsY writes:

Ok, this might sound really corny what i done...

So I like this boy, and i think he likes me too (but im not sure anymore. He was recently moved to my P.E. class so he sat next to me on the coach. We talked alot as we have the same interests and get along, but he's shy so i know he'd never tell me he if liked me, so i decided to drop some hints.

Firstly, I said "Ohh... my hands are so cold... feel *holds his hand*". We held hands for a few seconds before i let go (i kinda chickened out xD)

Secondly, about 10 minutes later i said "Wow, im so tired *leans on his shoulder*" I layed there for the rest of the coach ride and he didnt seem to mind.

When i look back at what i done, i realise how extremely corny it was. But I really like him and i want him to know... without just telling him (I'm really shy too). He didn't do anything or say anything after... i don't know if he didn't get it (i don't know how he couldn't have... but oh well), or is just to shy to say or do anything...

I don't know what to do... should i continue to flirt (but not as corny), tell him i like him or wait for him to do something..

Thanks alot (:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009):

This is a really hard situation when you and he are both shy. It was the same with me and my now current boyfriend and I got really annoyed then because he just did not ask me out for ages.

What I most recommend is first-tell your friends,, second-get them to either talk to him or his friends,, thirdly-if you/your friends told his friends get them to talk to him.

When they talk to him just get them to drop hints, find out if he likes you, get them to encourage him to ask you out.

But if this doesn't work you will just have to ask him out. And yes, you should keep flirting with him.

Plz tell me how you got on and Good Luck!

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A female reader, unique899 United States +, writes (13 September 2009):

unique899 agony auntgo out wit him

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