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*opelessromantic101
writes: 2 months ago my gf if u can call it that broke up and we talked everyday but when she told me she was hooking up with guys when she was drunk i was jealous but didnt tell her. a month ago i told her that i couldnt be friends with her anylonger if she didnt want to be with me and we havent spoken since. its weird in school because sometimes i just want to go up to her and say to her all the things that she told to me and lied to me about but i dont because i cant imagining doing that to her or anybody. the problem is i think i met somebody new who liikes me but i dont know if its just a rebound. i dont like rebounds because i feel like im using them. how do i tell if i genuinely like her?
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reader, busy04 +, writes (12 September 2009):
You'll know it's not a rebound when you can honestly admit to yourself that you are completely over your ex & completely ready to move on with NO REGRETS. You'll just have this assurance of yourself first above anything. And no one can really tell you if you genuinely like someone or not. That's only for you to know within your own heart, and trust me, you will know & you will never have to ask anyone about it. You won't feel like you're using that person and you won't have any doubts. You'll feel secure with whatever feelings you have.
I know it may not be much of an answer you were looking for but I Hope I did help you a little bit :)
Best wishes!
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