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writes:I 'M HURT because my fiancée of nine years said we're done ,she bring up the past all the time .I always put her first now she dont want to talk about it.what do i do i wrote her two letters telling her how i feel and i was sorry.we live together for eight years[Moderator's note: added from the same poster.]hi‚ i,ve been this relationship for 9 yrs and we live together .I was in an accident 4 yrs ago ,i almost lost my life she's been helping me with everything because i'm in a wheelchair ,I have to learn to walk again but she been there for me.She told me she's not happy because i'm not showing any attention,she work 2 jobs and college while i babysit 14yr old and 12yr old when she get home weekends her school buddies want her to go out so she can release some stress ,I let her go .We just moved to a smaller house and my hospital bed can't fit,so the bed that we have isn't good for me cause of the accident .I sleep on the couch because it's more comfortable two days in new house now she's angry because i'm not sleeping in the bed with her.She tell me 2 weeks ago she meet a guy over her brothers and they been talking about each others relationships,now the guy is hitting on her,he's fresh out a divorce and she think he's nice they been talking for 2 months behind my back.I have never cheated on her.
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reader, unique899 +, writes (12 September 2009):
 idk she might be a little crazy marry her u been her fiance for NINE years thats way to long be romantuic tell her you love her massage her feet kiss her cheek send flowers to her job just because
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): first and foremost she needs to understand what you are going through. she needs to sit down and you all need to talk but if she wants something else let her leave and see that the grass is not greener on the other side, once you get yourself together with learning how to walk she will come around because once she sees that u are u and doing u she wiil not want another to have you. sometime people need to understand that everything that they are looking for is right there in front of them
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