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writes: Well I like my art teacher... But good news we are only like 3 years apart in age. I don't know if he likes me and I think he might have a gf but I can't ask that! It'd be awkward. He's asian too and I don't think he'd be into me because I'm not Asian. He's pretty nice to me and seems sorta nervous around me but that's it Im afraid that if he does like me, he'd never say so. How can I attract him? And how do I subtly let him know I'm interested? And what are some signs that he likes me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): I'm not going to give you tips on how to let him know you're interested, because if it became anything more than a teacher-student relationship he would be in a LOT of trouble, which I'm hoping you are aware of, please respect that. As for his nervousness around you, that may even be because he's attracted to you (physically at the least) or because of how you are acting when you're in his class, he may be able to pick up on the fact that you like him.
I know you are not underage and only 3 years apart but any relationship with a student is against the law and is a breach of trust within the school. For now, befriend him at the very most, but don't tell him how you feel or try to make a move, because even if he is interested it's against the law. If you're still attracted to him when you leave school then perhaps you could persue him then.
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