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I just cannot make him cum!

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Question - (12 September 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I cant seem to make my boyfriend cum. I have literally sat for hours going down and giving him hand jobs but he wont cum. I'm beginning to feel like theres something wrong with me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009):

I have been there before. In my situation, I thought something was wrong with me. He was too embarrassed to talk about it, and I was as well--at first. Later I learned he had erectile dysfunction.

Glad to now see you have succeeded! Congrats!

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (16 September 2009):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntCongratulations! The gipper came through.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

So thank you today he did he had to help my hands arent big enough, but he came so yay!

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (13 September 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntMost guys masturbate way to roughly and it makes them less sensitive. Let him show how he does it, then follow the example. Remember, it is called whanking and spanking the monkey for a reason.

But build it up slow, because girls, it ain't a crank either. It can come off.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009):

I agree, it's likely nerves, but some guys simply do not come from certain acts. He needs to assist you in what makes him cum. Have him SHOW you how he gets himself off, and see if you can replicate that... if he's taught himself some odd way to get off, he needs to show you!

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (13 September 2009):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntHe may have to see someone about this. Maybe hand jobs just don't do it for him. Can he make himself ejaculate?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009):

It's probably his nerves more than anything. As with all situations like this speak to him about it, only he knows at the end of the day.

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