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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, Im a 16 year old boy. I think Im normal. I think I suffer all the lessons most people go through, like annoying urges for sex when you cant have it. Im smart, I think befor I unzip, but that the point, ive never unzipped as im still a virgin, but the question that bugs me will I be good during sex? this could just be he average sort of question for most virgin men, its just Ive realised girls who are my age tend to feel more comfortable with men (some who are way older than me by a good 3 to 6 years) because they have more experience out in the field of love/sex.To me it doesnt feel right on my part to date someone yonger than myself, as they are usually around 14 to 15 years old, I still find them attactive its just I ignore them because I control myself.But How, at this stage, will I be able to get good at sex? I understand what I like during sex through masterbation, but is there a way to practise? Like can I practise thrusting by masterbating while standing up?!? (sounds wierd I know) or can I practise kissing or anything like that?I think Im abit self aware too, sometimes I feel I look awesome, then other times I think I look bad?other question like is my penis at 7 inches long and a good inche wide good enough? what do women expect?Please help me understand they questions and understand myself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): Most girls just have a total double standard about the age thing. An older guy interested in them is fine, but a guy their own age eyeing anyone younger is a creep. (And for some reason they can't understand that the older guy they're messing with is just as much of a creep as they think their male peer is.)As women get older their hypocracy about this won't change. It will get even worse as younger women start costing them decent men.You are a boy in your teens so you can't go very much younger with girls before it gets in appropriate and unbalanced. You have to make do with what you can get unfortunately. More than year or two and it starts to be a real problem. It helps a lot to stay within your own school level. If you are in high school I would not suggest going down to junior high girls.I know it's frustrating, because being a dirtbag gets rewarded with sex but being a good guy does not. Get used to this problem because it's not gonna change.
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