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writes:I have been dating my Capricorn guy for 5 months,everything was just great at the begining and slowly he was pulling away stopped calling txting..etc, unless if i did! second he was like let us be close friends! and thats what he told me that he mentioned it from the begining but it wasent like that it was more than friendsship,anyhow i stayed as friends but i was sad and all for him not calling or txting! so i left then am back to him again telling him how i missed him back in my life like they way we were at the bgining. he'S Back but he rarley calls! its me who is doing the whole thing! Sometimes he is close to me and nice and sometimes he is far! cant understand that guy, i neeed to know does he needs time to fall in love? or shall i give him space or what? am confused he is really wierd sometimes. i just Give up on him!! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): hi
If he REALLY was with you, you wouldn't be asking anyone for advice!!!! Everything would be fine. Do you remember the scene from My Best Friend's Wedding, when Julia Roberts kisses the groom, and the bride, the groom and Julia all chase one another??? Then she calls up Rupert Edward and he tells her (in very plain language), "Who's chasing you?? No body!!"
well, she gets the advice and the movie ends on a very happy note!!
Well, ask yourself... is HE after you or are you the Only one chasing him???
Even if he is interested, do yourself a favor and watch him come up to you!!! (Believe me, it'll feel grt)
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reader, cluelessGrl +, writes (12 September 2009):
cluelessGrl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for those who answered and trying to help or advice me,i have a question would he really stay with me if he wasent intrested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): I also agree. Sometimes men get confused and don't understand the strain they put us through!! (Hate that). I think that you are correct when you say that you are the only one in the relationship. It is but natural to miss the guy... but going back and forth with him will get you no where. I say that you get a little selfish and think about your needs!!! Do you want to put yourself through this kind of emotional roller-coaster? No matter how great the man,he is not worth this! I say, you put as much space between him and yourself as you can!!! And. start checking out all the other available men!!!
What I am trying to say is, ignore him completely. If he wants you as bad as you want him... well, he knows your number right??
Hey, listening to Tracy Chapman's "Give Me One Reason" might also help put things into perspective!! (it helped me a lot).
SO, go get out! Run!!!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 I agree with pinktopaz. I don't think it has anything to do with his being a Capricorn. Both myself and my partner are Capricorns and we are both loyal and attentive to eachother but it is more to do with the fact that we want to be together (as I am sure it is with any other couple - putting horoscope signs aside). If he stetes that he just wants to be friends, then sadly thats all it will most likely ever be. Don't waste your precious time chasing after someone who doesn't want to be with you (however much you like them) Find someone else who will devote themself to you entirely.
Good Luck xxx
Aunty Em
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (12 September 2009):
What does him being a Capricorn have to do with anything? I'm a Capricorn, and typically traits of Capricorns are stability, honesty, and responsibility...all of which are not characteristics that he's showing. I think he wants out of this relationship but doesn't really know what he wants or have the guts to tell you straight up. I think you should give him space. It's only normal when you're trying, yet the other isn't showing the interest that you think that they should be showing or recirocating the same amount of interest that you're putting forth-- that you're bound to give up eventually. There's no use chasing after a guy that doesn't want to be caught. Give him his space and see if he comes around. If he does, then it's time to ask him what he does want, if you two aren't on the same page, then you'll know that he isn't the right person for you at this point in time.
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