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He didn't bother telling me he wouldn't be able to meet as we'd arranged! He is wrecking with my head!

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Question - (12 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *hna writes:

ok im starting to get really f***ing annoyed right now

im in my last year of school doing my a levels and so is my boyfriend we spent a lot of time together in the summer an grew alot closer staying over in each others houses etc

were back to school id say two weeks now and he has just turned into such a twat since . . for instance he keeps making plans to meet up with me then he doesnu

last friday we were supose to meet up and chill out cause i hadnt seen him all week and i was use to seeing him 3/4 times a week during the summer he wanted to hang ut with his friends but i thought that was cool so watever like . . . i had started to get worried that week though that we wernt going to work out cause we wuldnt see each othe much and when we would we would be in bad moods or with hangovers or just want sex ?(cause thats a usual sunday for us and that would be the only day i see him) and he got all angry with me and statrted fighing with me ?

then tonight heres what happened.

all week he had been saying we should chill out becuase he has a match on saturday so he wouldnt be out and neither would i cause i wanted to get on with my homework and anyway i txt him and said jus give me a txt later and will hang out he said ok in the meantime my friends were all doing something but i went home did my homework at sat in like a twat on a friday night because he wanted to hang out so comes to about ten oclock and i rang him cos my friends wanted to know about the match tmorrow cos we are going and he said he was with all his friends palying poker didnu even bother telling me like ?? not a txt nothing and then he trys to come up with excuses i hate people bullshitiing me it makes me so angry and he really f***ing pissed me off an we had a fight i dont no what t do i want to break up with him becasue he is really wrecking with my head an i feeling like he doesnt even give a shit anymore but i dont want to break up with him because i love him ??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009):

He is playing games with you and wants to have the relationship only when it is convenient for him. Don't let him do this to you. He may very well be with his guy friends, but he is being disrespectful to you by keeping you hanging on.

Do you know WHY he is doing this? Because you are letting him! Tell him to kiss your a...

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