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writes:This is abit long but can anyone possibly help me out...?hi guys before u judge me, yes it was silly but its done now so anyway here it is... i found out im pregnant tuesday (8th) but let me explain i came on my period last month a wk and 3 days late i came on the 31st july... me and my bf then broke up the 12th august! then the 20th august i met up with my ex who was my 1st love and well we started sleepin together i saw him quite alot over them next few wks and i was due on the 28th august. (but i came off the oill a few months ago so my periods were still gettin used to it) so i was a couple of days late and tested but it was neg so i waited again another few days and when i was a wk late i tested again still neg, (if it was my exs who i broke up with it shoulkd of come up pos by then) so i left it and just thought i was late again. i then tested 1 wk and 4/5 days late and i got a pos it took abit longer to come up and it was light but def pos. i did a few and all the same. i did a digital test wiv conception indicator on it and it said "Pregnant - 1-2 wks" (after conception which would be 3-4 wks doctors terms) so my question is do u think i ovulated later and caught with my 1st love as we spent alot of time together and all the things ive put?? i know its long im sorry but im so worried he is so happy n i wanna try and chill out a bit for the baby. can u let me kno wat u think please, on who is more likely to be the daddy by the details iv given you.. only decent answers i feel bad enough as it is.... thanx in advance
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (12 September 2009):
 This is a judgement free post - you havent cheated on anyone after all and in today's day and age then you can sleep with who you like as a single girl! So, stop stressing about the morality issue. There is no way to tell for certain who the 'sperm donor' could be - as you say your cycle is not exactly back to normal after the pill. Sperm are also nifty little fellas who can hang around inside for several days before giving up on their ultimate challenge. My point is that you should see a GP and get booked for antenatal care as soon as you can, as well as taking daily folic acid supplements (very important). When the baby arrives then you can have a DNA test done to find out who the father is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): I can tell before a women gets pregant the eggs travels to the ovary first in foremost. If the sperm dose not make it to the egg within in the time you ovulate then that's when we have our periods. That is were the blood comes from so I would think to say that it is the ex who's baby it is. But at the same time our bodies are doing strange things these days but I learned that in school I am a LPN students so you can go off what I learned and go to the doctor be make sure. Until you find out don't let either of them know until you know for yourself I hope that this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): With all these positives and negatives, I think you should go to the doctor to get it confirmed. After that, they will do an estimate on how many weeks pregnant you are. If you want, you could express your concern so they can tell you in more detail about ovulation and then you can work out the probability. Then I think you need to tell both of them that they could be the father, just incase the calculations are wrong and it turns out to be the other guys child. You won't know (I think, now 100% sure) until the baby is born (I'm assuming you've decided to keep it) who the father is, when a DNA test can be done.
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