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writes:Life is to short to have to worry about if and when the right man would come along. I am a single mother of a daughter that is seventeen. I have always tried to do what was best for her. I never brought her around to many men that I have dated. She would always ask why she could not meet my friends and I would tell her that everyone should not come across her path. The thing about it is that I have met some good men or should I say ok because they all had flaws and I always had a zero tolerance for cheating. Either I would find out or they would end up leaving. I just need to know what to do to find that special person so that I can be happy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt is not about me wanting the perfect realationship it is about finding that person that I can trust and I know will do right. I have had so good men but to a point. Yes they would take care of home because if I did not do one thing for sure it would be no man in my house hold stays for free. In the mean time men will find a way to cheat and always get caught because they do not know how to cheat but I will be ok because god has a plan for everyone and I wii have what I need out of life I do time.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 I agree that you should be more open minded about people you meet. Cheating is unnacceptable and there are a lot of people who cheat...but there are also countless others who don't. You may have trust issues from past relationships but when you meet someone new, it should be a 'clean slate'. Give people a chance to really get to know them.
Everyone has flaws. The big ones like lying, cheating etc are not so acceptable but the small flaws, well we all have stuff about ourselves that we don't really like, but we hope someone accepts them as we accept theirs. It's a fine dance and takes work to really feel comfortable with someone but people do it everyday and so shall you :-)
...and don't worry about your daughter. I have two of around the same age. I divorced their dad after 18 years and it has taken me 5 years to finally find someone I feel comfotable with again. My girls are happy for me and so to will your daughter when you find happiness again.
Aunty Em xxx
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (12 September 2009):
 your daughter will be out of the picture soon, so you will be free to persue a relationship without it affecting her."I just need to know what to do to find that special person so that I can be happy." Thats a qestion kno one can answer, you say you wouldnt tolerate cheating some people would, so whats special for one person is not for another. I suggest you actively begin to pursue a relation ship, there are dating sites clubs events places you can meet men. but dont have your expectations so high you seem like you want perfection relationships are about sacrifice.
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