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writes:Ive known this girl for a year now. Shes everything you could ask for, pretty, great personality, and we have really good chemistry, we could talk for hours.When i first met her she was going out with one of my friends, and i was going for someone else. It didnt work out and i didnt date anyone for a while.I haven't seen her since July and now that school started again i still rarely see her. I usually see her in lunch. We were talking at lunch and she brought up me going to prom, i didnt know if it meant anything.I called her later, we talked for about an hour, and then her boyfriend goes to her house. This hit me like a brick because i had no idea she was dating anyone.So what do I do now? How do I get them to break up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): You need to tell her how you feel!!!I was dating a guy named Phillip and at the same time one of my other guy friends had feelings for me and I was oblivious. If I had known he liked me I would have never asked Phillip out!!! As soon as I broke up with Phillip, my current boyfriend asked me out and I was so surprised, I was also upset that I hadn't picked him instead of Phil and that he never told me how he felt. Anyway, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for quite a while and he's perfect. I can't believe he never told me how he felt but I'm glad he eventually asked me out. I just wish it has happened sooner!Good luck!
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reader, guitarrocker +, writes (13 September 2009):
guitarrocker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright, i wont try to break them up.
But if they do break up, how long after they do break up do i wait to ask her out?
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reader, Abbiijade  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 babe this girl is taken...Imagine what you are doing to her boyfriend..You're being very selfish.I know you like this girl,I understand that,but seriously,wait it out.if she's meant to be with you,her and this lad wont work.dont be the cause though,because you'll feel horrid.and dont have an affair,because if she's capable of cheating with you,and then u get together,u will be paranoid because you know she cheated with u,so shes capable of cheating on youif that makes sense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): If she went out with one of your friends it means that she is off limits to you. I have always believed that you can be friends with them but never date them. It may mess up the friendship that you have with your friend think about it is it really worth losing your friend.
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reader, gabriella lopez  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 I dont think getting them to break up for your own benefit is a good idea . All you can do is get closer to her , you dont want to put her in a awkward place to choose . It should come naturally to her whether he's right for her or you are . I've been in your position before , but my ex was dating my friend . Sucked for me but really I told him how I felt in time , turned out he felt the same then we went from there . One word of advice do NOT rush things , it makes things more complicated and messy . Be honest and patient if you really want this .- Gabriella xoxo
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