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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I have come to like her a lot. Near the end of the summer i started to feel like i was falling in love with her. if we didn't talk then i would start to miss her so much that i would get depressed.I was confused because she's my cousin. and i thought it was wrong but i dont know what to think now. I'm afraid if i tell her how i feel that she won't talk to me at all. the last time she left back home i cried terribly for the 1st time everynight for a week.Should i tell her how i feel? im just afraid that she'll think i'm a freak and she won't talk to me. i dont want to ruin the great relationship that we have as cousins. could someone please give me advice on what to do. thanks so much.
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reader, Sugarmuffin +, writes (13 September 2009):
This is really bad.This is wrong darling.. you need to tell her though. You need to explain it's wrong but you really like her. Ask her to tell you what to do; only she can help you. you like her, ask her. you'll listen to her
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